This one goes out to all my fellow new dads.
If there’s one thing you constantly pick up on when becoming a new parent (dad to be more specific)… it’s being called out as “the dad”. And trust me, you will get it everywhere. You will get it at work… you will get it when you’re with a group of friends… you’ll even get it from your new mom. Being called a dad isn’t bad at all… but being a brand new title, it comes across with mixed feelings.
Hola amigos & amigas!
It’s been a while. 2 months to be exact. On the 6th, Reese will turn 3 months. Erin will tell you she’s already 3 months based upon number of weeks weeks… but I go by the 6th of each month… like a normal person celebrating a birthday Continue reading
It’s been one month since BS was born! That’s “Baby Sessink” to you noobies, and Reese Elizabeth to others.
I’ve thought about all that I’ve learned in the past month, and thought I’d share ten things that I’ve learned and experienced in this short time. If you’re a parent, you (hopefully) agree! If you’re yet to be a parent, consider these a heads up
Hello my friends!!
It’s been a while. I kept writing post after post, thinking BS would show her face… but she took her sweet time. Lazy like her dad, I suppose. 9 days after the due date, she was finally ready… and on Friday June 6th, we welcomed BS into the world!
Meet – Reese Elizabeth Sessink
Hello everyone. I was pretty confident that my last post was going to be it before BS came to be… but… here we are, still waiting!
The official due date is this coming Thursday, May 29th. Erin starting to dilate (sorry if that’s TMI – get over it), so we know we’re close. A lot of people have told us that the first kid comes late… which, at this point, is not what Erin wants. If I were a pregnant woman, I would describe the last two weeks of pregnancy as “OK, my back hurts and this is getting old, get the hell out”. Based upon my observations :))
Week 36 (as of tomorrow) update here from the soon-to-be dad. It’s about to get real. Holy cow… holy baby, more like it.
It’s that time where the baby showers are done… diaper party is over… our friends’ and families’ share of excitement has subdued… and it’s getting close to D-day; or as I like to call it, BS-day!
My friend Jon recently put this whole thing into a new perspective for me. He and his wife had their first child several weeks ago (congrats! Zane is super cool). He told me that when his wife went into labor, he realized that within 12-24 hours… he was going to become a dad. Now think about that… you could almost compare that to knowing when you’re going to die (minus the complete morbidity it sounds like)… it puts your whole life into a new perspective! As of right now… Erin and I know that this baby girl could come at ANY MOMENT. And when those contractions start, it’s like having a glimpse into the future.
Today marks mine and Erin’s 4 year anniversary. Crazy to think it’s already been that long! If you include the time we also dated, it’s been over 10 years. Wow!
I thought I’d share some of my favorite moments from the past four years. Check out the gallery below. Next year, it’ll probably be full of baby photos!
Week 33 here. It’s crazy how fast this has all gone! Word on the street is that 40 weeks is preferred, so less than 2 months until BS comes out. Someone Erin knows was due a week before us, and she just popped out her child. Crazy to think something like that could happen to us. Are we ready for that? Uhm……
We attended a birthing class on Saturday morning. It was about as fun as the runs. When they asked “what could you live without during pregnancy”, Erin and I joked about answering “this class” – haha! I didn’t respond that way… which is a sign I’m already being a “good dad”… maybe.
Erin has grown/not grown/hasn’t gained a pound/can’t tell you have a belly!?… a lot over the past 33 weeks (I never know what I can safely say :)). See the below animation. Pretty cool!
Father of BS here. Week 30 check-in. We are in the home-stretch – trimester #3!
Erin’s bump continues to grow. She’s the hottest momma-to-be ;). BS continues to move and kick throughout the day. She kicks so hard that I can even feel it while laying in bed. It’s quite impressive for a 3.2 pound human inside another human (according to this app).
The constant uncomfortableness is definitely kicking in full force. She wakes me up every freaking hour!!! Oh wait… nice things :). When we’re relaxing on the couch, changing positions every 10 minutes is common. OUR ability to sleep more than 2 hours straight has been limited by the tossing and turning, and bathroom breaks. And at this rate, I’m going to develop arthritis and carpal tunnel from all the massaging.
Probably the ‘girliest’ post yet… but thought I’d share what our lovely moms threw for us this weekend. Again… thank you, thank you, THANK YOU to our moms!
Baby shower was at the Bavarian Inn, in Frankenmuth. While a longer drive for us, it was a good location for all of our family, and a nice small town with plenty to do. We welcomed our guests, had their famous chicken dinner for lunch, and then began the gift opening.
Our moms went way overboard with decorating and ideas. Owls have somehow become the theme for BS. We had owls in plenty of gifts, diaper-owl center pieces for the tables, and a whole lot more. My mom made custom chocolate bar packaging which was cool too.